An important first time visitor on the podcast at the moment as Dotun Olubeko, winner of Bachelorette season 21 now up wherever you take heed to your podcasts and on my YouTube channel. Wanna thank BetUS for connecting Dotun and I for this interview. First time ever talking with him and I’ve them to thank for it. Click on on BetUS to test it out. By no means thought that Dotun and I might join, however hey, right here we’re. We had rather a lot to go over since his life has been a whirlwind for a superb yr now. We discuss Jenn’s finale, talk about the chance that maaaaaaaybe he spoiled his personal season (hey, I needed to ask), he has some questions for Actuality Steve he needed to get off his chest, being in a public relationship, does DWTS have an effect on {couples}, and far, way more. Nice time with Dotun at the moment and I hope you all get pleasure from this dialog.
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YOUR DAILY ROUNDUP 9/5 TRANSCRIPT
You might be listening to the Every day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in. A very good Thursday present for you, despite the fact that a few of you could be receiving this on Thursday evening or Wednesday evening as a result of as you understand, I’m heading out of city. within the morning and I simply needed to get all of your podcasts up proper now.
So we’re going to speak extra about gen season, all the things that went down yesterday, issues that occurred on social media. We’ve obtained rather a lot to cowl in at the moment’s podcast and we’ll get to that momentarily. I do wish to say this, your whole stuff is coming tonight. So day by day roundup you’re listening to proper now in about quarter-hour from now, the sports activities day by day will probably be up after which about quarter-hour after that, 1230 AM central time is when your episode, your weekly podcast episode quantity 4 Oh seven with Dotton Alabeco is occurring tonight.
It’ll be on my YouTube channel at 1230 AM. Central time must be in your podcast feed a bit of bit earlier than that. So you’re getting all the things tonight. I simply need to have the ability to get up tomorrow morning, bathe, get in my automobile, go to the airport and never have to fret about stuff. I’d retweet a number of the stuff that I put out tonight and simply say, Hey, for these of you that had been sleeping.
After I posted these items, it’s up after which tomorrow’s day by day roundup and sports activities day by day are each already loaded and able to go. At the moment was actually in all probability one of many busiest days. Not solely did it need to be the day after the finale, but it surely’s additionally a day the place I did three interviews and recorded 5 podcasts.
Like I simply, I procrastinated tomorrow’s a podcast visitor on the day by day roundup is Kristen Burtt, who’s an leisure reporter for Dem dancing with the celebs. So we spend about 35 minutes speaking about that. My sports activities day by day tomorrow was already pre recorded, however I nonetheless needed to file an open and a detailed.
I recorded with Dotton at the moment. I recorded at the moment’s sports activities day by day and I recorded this podcast. So yeah, 5 podcasts, three interviews. Busy, busy day, however I’m clear till Sunday evening after I file Mondays, a day by day roundup and a sports activities day by day. However I simply didn’t wish to need to file something. Ravens and chiefs are tonight.
I’ll be in Vegas and I didn’t wish to have to return to my room after the sport at like, properly, it’ll be about eight 30, 9 o’clock on a Thursday evening in Vegas, they usually didn’t wish to return to my room and spend an hour there recording two podcasts. So that they’re all set. Loaded, able to go tomorrow. All proper, so let’s get going with some extra bachelorette stuff.
Some issues that got here to me from that I possibly didn’t get to yesterday. Regarding the finale, nothing new to report with reference to what I heard from the one who messaged me. I’m nonetheless making an attempt to work out some particulars and discover out, clearly I wish to vet this correctly and wish to be certain that.
However I do not know. If I can, this individual, you understand, somebody contacted me that is aware of one thing about any individual else. And I’m like, properly, I would like to speak to that any individual else individual straight. I imply, I, I’m not saying I’m doubting your story, however I must go straight to the supply right here and the person who’s presumably concerned.
So I’m simply ready to listen to again from them and see if they’ll put me in contact. Or if that different individual even desires to talk, I. Don’t know, and I can’t drive them to in the event that they don’t wish to some issues that I simply by no means went over within the finale. The present itself. I believed Jen’s brother was glorious. I imply, that man killed it very, you understand, he wasn’t like gung ho, like quite a lot of these households are skeptical, however he was skeptical with a delicate aspect about it.
He wasn’t simply coming down on the fellows. He was asking good questions. A very powerful factor about James, her brother was, you understand, Whereas we had been watching the episode of what occurred again in Hawaii, the dwell shot of him in his seat just about informed the entire story. The man by no means cracked a smile as soon as.
After which you’ve got Jesse asking him after we watched each guys meet James and the household. We had Jesse ask him, how are you feeling proper now? He’s like, not too pleased proper now. So we sort of knew that at that time he wouldn’t say that if Jen was pleased and in a relationship and nonetheless engaged. So we sort of knew what was coming, however.
It was very telling to say the least however James, he knocked it out of the park on that episode for positive. You understand, the extra I give it some thought, the extra bothered I’m by them exhibiting the proposal. And sure, I’m very properly conscious that Jen stated in a number of interviews yesterday that she, she knew it was coming.
She knew they had been going to point out the proposal. She knew it was going to be an emotional evening for her they usually knew, and she or he stated, I used to be not stunned in any respect. They didn’t shock me and throw that on me. She goes, I knew it was coming, which is ok, however that doesn’t make it proper. It doesn’t imply, Hey, we gave her a heads up.
She knew we had been going to point out it. I don’t suppose that’s the query that must be requested. The query that must be requested is why did you need to present it? Whether or not they confirmed it in, and a few individuals are saying, properly, I believe they, I didn’t have an issue exhibiting them exhibiting it. They need to have confirmed it within the regular sequence.
And after we, so we often see proposals occur. I’m like, I don’t suppose it issues, you understand? And, and the most important downside I’ve with it’s the truth that I stated it yesterday, however I wish to repeat this once more. That is the difficulty. We noticed her dump Marcus. Then the following scene is Devin going to satisfy Neil Lane to have a look at rings.
After which proper after that scene, Jesse Palmer, we get again to a dwell shot of Jesse Palmer on the sofa saying, Hey, usually presently, very pleased second, we’d present you the proposal, however we’re not going to try this resulting from what’s occurred since that day. After which they’ve two segments of Jen sitting on the sofa crying.
And you then present it prefer it simply doesn’t make any sense after they particularly informed us we’re not going to point out it. He didn’t say at that time, we’re not going to point out it now. We wish to discuss it and we’ll present it later. I simply, it made no sense. And this present can say no matter they need. No person has come out but from the present and defended them exhibiting the proposal.
I doubt anyone will. Jesse’s going to be requested about it sooner or later, I might suppose, however my level is nothing that they are saying, and I do know their reply goes to be like, we needed to point out Jen that she was an empowering girl at that and the way robust she was on that day. I’m sorry. That’s not ok.
She didn’t need to see that. You probably did it to get a viral TV second and to get folks speaking. You probably did it for tv functions, not since you had been searching for Jen’s emotions. The lady was already a large number for 2 straight segments, and you then made her watch that once more. And I do know she stated, look, I needed Devin to look at it, however Devin needed no a part of it both.
Sat there along with his head down, and Jen sat there crying. Once more. Which I imply, how might you not watching that again together with your ex fiance sitting proper subsequent to you? It was simply so not elegant. It was humiliating. It was embarrassing and it by no means ought to have been proven interval. Finish of story. There’s nothing they’ll say to persuade me.
Oh, I see their aspect. I simply don’t. I don’t see it. It was a tv stunt carried out to get folks speaking, which clearly it labored. Persons are speaking about it at the moment. All people’s speaking about it at the moment. I can’t consider they made her sit by means of that proposal that they obtained what they needed. It doesn’t make it proper.
Devin on the sofa saying, you understand, yeah, regretfully, I used to be late on letting you know the way I felt. That’s his finest rationalization. Actually? That’s all you possibly can give you? You’ve had three and a half months since Could sixteenth to formulate one thing higher than that. And all he might say was, Regretfully, I used to be late on letting you know the way I felt.
Once more, folks on this franchise are allowed to get off the present. I’m speaking about ultimate {couples}. You’re allowed to get off the present, have your pleased couple visits, begin attending to know one another extra and notice, Oh shit, possibly this isn’t gonna work out between us. That’s completely acceptable. Actually, it’s the norm on the present.
Trigger far more {couples} break up than truly keep collectively. Once more, my greatest difficulty with Devin shouldn’t be that he couldn’t be appropriate with Jen or that Jen couldn’t be appropriate with him, or they wouldn’t have made it longterm. It’s the truth that the love bombing occurred for the final 4 episodes. And as Jen stated, which is confirmed by Dotton, whenever you pay attention on this interview at the moment, Dotton tells me, I noticed Jen proper after filming ended at CMA Fest and she or he stated then one thing’s sort of off.
He stated she didn’t spoil something for me, however she’s like one thing’s sort of off. One thing’s bizarre. That was CMA Fest. That was like possibly every week after they obtained again from filming, finish of Could. In order that’s what I imply. What Jen stated was confirmed by Dotton on Podcast quantity 407 developing in about an hour from now, half hour from now, no matter, 1230 a.
m. He’s Central Commonplace Time. It was confirmed by him. She wasn’t mendacity on the stage when she stated she felt like he was distant from the time they left Hawaii and one foot out the door. Like, I imply, I, I stated it on Dave’s dwell Monday evening after the present. And I’ll say it once more. If he would have simply went for a month or two months and notice, man, it’s not working between us and simply had, they usually broke up earlier than the present.
Yeah, it could have sucked. It’s occurred earlier than although, on the present the place they couldn’t even make it. The ultimate couple couldn’t make it to after the ultimate rose, however. We simply not getting a solution to, Hey, I couldn’t dwell as much as your expectations, Jen. Okay. Why couldn’t you reside as much as the expectations? Inform us, inform us the way you felt the place you simply, you get off the, you get off the Island in Hawaii and also you’re similar to, I’m not interested in her.
I don’t discover her engaging in any respect. Was it, she snores throughout her, when she sleeps? I don’t know. I’m simply saying, give us a purpose. You gave us nothing and that’s why it’s very arduous to consider something he says, particularly when he says, regretfully, I’m late on letting you understand, I ought to’ve let you understand. I couldn’t dwell as much as your expectations and also you weren’t the individual you must have been round me.
I similar to, I’m sorry. He’s like placing it again on her to virtually take warmth off himself. Like, you understand, the just about. Virtually the, it’s not, it’s not you, it’s me. So I completely perceive the place he simply didn’t have the balls to return out and inform her why he wasn’t, why he wasn’t feeling it along with her anymore. And I’m sorry after I’ve heard all of the issues that I’ve heard for the final 4 months.
After which I discover out that this man mainly checked out from the second he left Hawaii.
It’s very straightforward to consider he conned her and he was by no means going to be severe about this relationship. He went on the present to win a recreation present in his thoughts. And you understand, I don’t know the way recreation of roses is speaking about this, however wouldn’t he technically be like the best recreation participant on this present’s historical past as a result of he received the ring or no matter, and, after which bolted, he did all the things he wanted to do to win.
Like if it’s all about successful, Devin could be one of many biggest gamers ever. But when it’s all about the way you deal with folks, he’s in all probability one of many worst. In order that’s what I imply. It’s simply, he’s not a superb man. Sorry. There’s no different method round it. And the way in which he handled her, the way in which he acted on stage, so aloof, didn’t appear to take accountability for something.
Simply got here throughout as terrible.
