You’re listening to the Day by day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve Podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in on this Monday. Boy, has Caitlin Bristow stepped in it. She is taking some main, main warmth for what she mentioned on the Betches podcast. Jared Freed, one of many co hosts.
We’re going to get into that. I’ll play you the clip and offer you my ideas on it. We’re additionally going to speak concerning the Instagram followings for the ultimate 4 males of Gen season, which is at an all time low. After which discuss a bit bit about Massive Brother from final evening and what’s been happening this week.
We are going to get to all that momentarily. So in case you haven’t heard it, Caitlyn Bristow went on the Betches podcast with Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham. It’s a part of the Betches podcast community. The precise podcast itself known as You Up with Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham. And Caitlyn went on it and they had been speaking about, Nicely, I’m going to play you the clip as a result of there’s a, there’s a whole lot of issues that we’ve got to get to with this.
So let me play you the clip right here after which we’ll talk about.
On a date with someone from the franchise and I attain out to the lady that he was with as a result of once more, I needed to see,
are you mates along with his ex? Probably not.
No, not in, we hadn’t talked in months and like, No, we’re not.
So that you had been like, okay, we most likely
appear to be mates on the skin.
Positive. However we’re not. So that you’re about how, how did the textual content go? Mentioned I mentioned, Hey, so and so dmd me.
Your ex DMed me. Yeah. Okay.
And we’ve been chatting, needed to see, I mentioned, I do know you’re actually joyful in a relationship. So I really, really, so I mentioned, I don’t really know if this could trouble you or not. I don’t know if it like.
Was sufficient to offer a telephone name prefer it clearly simply appeared like a textual content factor to me and Sure, she known as and was very upset
and mentioned don’t go close to this man.
No, she mentioned I all the time knew you had been a foul particular person No And also you’ve confirmed it. So your true colours are displaying. After which I hung up and I went, No, I simply need to ship her an image of me sucking his dick.
Laughing
She’s positively not as joyful as you thought she was. I used to be like, it is best to have seen my face on the decision. I used to be like, Oh my God. She known as you to inform you that? Yeah. And she or he, and I used to be similar to, I’m so sorry. Like I, I really didn’t assume you had been going to reply. I’m really actually sorry. I went on a date with somebody.
Okay. So there’s a couple of issues there to debate. Primary, she’s clearly speaking about relationship Zach. Zach was the one which hit her up in her DMs and he or she’s speaking about Tayshia. That is, I believe the primary concern, which is Caitlin has made it very clear that she’s by no means going to speak about whoever she’s relationship and he or she’s by no means going to publish footage with them till actually the marriage.
Now, I don’t consider her when she says that, however I’m simply saying that is what she has mentioned publicly. So we will solely take her at her phrase for what she says publicly. She’s mainly saying like, look, I’m not going to do what I did with Sean. I’m not going to do what I did with Jason, anyone. I’m retaining my non-public life off the web.
I, I beneath, and he or she did make it identified that, look, I perceive footage have gotten out. Folks have seen stuff on the market. I’m not going to ever conceal from it. I’m simply not going to brazenly publish about it. Okay. That’s positive. Bye. The issue is by discussing this now on this podcast, the you up podcast, she’s nearly to say, I’m not going to speak about my non-public life after which inform a narrative like that may be very contradictory as a result of now persons are going to have questions and persons are going to be like, I believed you weren’t speaking about your relationship and now you simply not solely instructed a narrative about somebody that you just had been seeing within the franchise.
And look, everyone knows who she’s speaking about. I do know she didn’t identify names, however we all know she’s speaking about Zach, the man that she is seeing every now and then. And she or he’s speaking about how Zach was as soon as engaged to Taysha. Zach hit her up in her DMs and he or she determined to inform Taysha in a textual content that they had been chatting and Taysha known as her the subsequent day and mentioned, exhibits me what a horrible particular person you’re, regardless of the language that she used, you’re a foul particular person.
So. There’s so many issues at play right here However once more, that first one, it’s simply very contradictory of Caitlin to say, I’m not going to speak about my public life, my private life within the public discussion board, after which not even inform this story on her personal podcast. Inform it on someone else’s like she needed to have identified that this was going to have traction and legs.
The second factor is the story that she instructed was so particular and it was graphic as a result of as soon as Tayshia instructed her that she wasn’t joyful, Caitlin made a joke. And the rationale why I mentioned she made a joke is as a result of she did remark about this, I consider, on her Fb, off the Vine web page, after the very fact, when she’s been taking a whole lot of warmth for this, as a result of it’s making the rounds, it’s throughout any, it’s throughout my TikTok feed, it’s throughout Instagram pages, everyone’s overlaying this.
She made a joke about, properly, geesh, and I’m going to only repeat what Caitlin mentioned. Nicely, geesh, after she mentioned that, I needed to ship her an image of me sucking his dick. I don’t know in what world Caitlyn thought that that will be an applicable response to say, even when she was joking, which she says she was as a result of this was despatched to me and it was put out on Caitlyn’s Fb group.
She responded to someone in her off the vine Fb group that mentioned, It was a joke. Jared is a comic, we’ve got banter. It was a joke, and naturally I wouldn’t need to try this. I’m laying in mattress, bawling my eyes out as a result of I really feel a lot disgrace watching it again once I was simply attempting to make Jared snort.
Now I really feel just like the world hates me. I used to be actually attempting to do the correct factor and I added a foul joke in there, as a result of it’s me and I don’t have a rattling filter. The bullying feedback coming in are so terrible now, so I assume I deserve that. Right here’s the issue. The joke, whereas she was attempting to get fun out of Jared, it’s not like I took offense to the joke.
I simply didn’t discover it remotely humorous, and I didn’t even perceive what the purpose of that joke was, and now she’s getting warmth. The distinction is the warmth coming from me is simply, Caitlin, you most likely ought to have saved your mouth shut on this one. I perceive she has no filter. The issue is, what number of occasions have we heard Caitlin say, I’ve no filter, and find yourself having to do one thing like this?
It appears to occur frequently to the place Caitlyn, we all know struggles with psychological well being. She struggles with trolls coming at her as a result of individuals leap down her throat lots. Generally it’s justified, generally it’s a bit bit exaggerated why trolls go after her. However she seemingly retains doing stuff that provides them fodder to return after her.
This simply wasn’t a great interview for her. I’m not saying something about Jordana and Jared. I’m saying, This doesn’t make her look good in any respect, as a result of nothing, by telling that story, nothing constructive might have come from that. Caitlyn needs individuals to be variety on the web, proper? She tells individuals on a regular basis, like, hey, let’s simply be good.
As a result of she struggles with it when she will get hate from web trolls. She struggles with it. We all know this. But right here she is on a podcast making a joke that’s on the expense of Tayshia. Saying, yeah, simply so, I ought to have simply mentioned, even when she was joking and he or she wasn’t critical. The purpose being the response sounded petty and it sounded very imply lady, which is precisely what Caitlin portrays to different those that she doesn’t need.
She needs individuals to be variety, she needs individuals to unfold positivity, after which she goes on a podcast and tells that story. There’s the contradiction. And I do know that pump, I do know that folks which are defending Kate and look, I’m not crew, I’m not crew Jason over crew Kaitlin. I like Kaitlin. I’ve obtained nothing towards Kaitlin.
I don’t have any form of relationship together with her, however I don’t have a problem with Kaitlin. And I’m not selecting a facet right here. I’m simply laying out the information and giving my opinion of this story as a result of it’s a serious story in Bachelor Nation proper now. It’s all anyone’s speaking about. Each content material creator is speaking about it and persons are having differing opinions.
Dave has a special opinion than me. She’s all batch consents as me. We’re type of on the identical facet of this and I’m similar to, look, it doesn’t imply that I don’t like Dave or something like this. Look, we’re allowed to have totally different opinions. My level being is I simply didn’t assume total Caitlin wanted to inform this story.
She might have simply, she wasn’t, it’s not like Taysha mentioned one thing and Caitlin felt the necessity to reply. It’s not like Taysha dissed her publicly and Caitlin’s like, Oh, right here’s, right here’s a means I can get again at her. I’m going to inform this story. Taysha doesn’t speak about something. We haven’t heard Taysha reference Caitlin in most likely two years.
Now, what Caitlin mentioned in that podcast may’ve been the primary time that she publicly addressed the truth that her and Taysha had been by no means shut mates. Folks thought they had been as a result of they co hosted The Bachelorette with Katie Thurston they usually co hosted The Bachelorette with Michelle Younger and everyone thought as a result of they had been co hosts and they’re not.
Been listening to that for years. They’ve by no means been shut mates and Caitlin admitted it in that podcast. In order that’s factually appropriate. They had been by no means shut mates, nevertheless it’s not like Caitlin instructed the story in retaliation to one thing Taysha mentioned. Taysha has been in a relationship with that Luke man for over a 12 months now.
Doesn’t even publish about him. Doesn’t discuss concerning the franchise anymore. She’s mainly eliminated herself from every little thing. Bachelor nation. So why would Caitlin? Over a 12 months later, inform this story. That’s what I don’t perceive. It doesn’t make any sense. It doesn’t come throughout as constructive. It comes throughout as imply lady.
It comes throughout as petty and that’s it. It’s simply do higher. Don’t inform the story. So I don’t hate Caitlin. And for those who, you recognize, need to cancel Caitlin, this isn’t cancelable offense, Caitlin. This isn’t the primary time. And it most likely received’t be the final time. Caitlin places her foot in her mouth as a result of she doesn’t have a filter.
And that’s all this was. Now, in case you’re bored with Caitlin placing in her foot within the mouth. After which getting unhappy and realizing that persons are coming down on her for one thing, then I recommend the very best factor to do, and that is everyone’s personal alternative is simply to unfollow, however don’t ship her a message. Don’t write a caption on her Instagram web page, telling her how a lot, how terrible you assume she was.
She made a foul joke on a podcast. That’s the way in which I take a look at it. It’s a foul joke on a podcast. She by no means ought to have made. And simply be higher subsequent time. That’s all I can ask of her. I don’t know her. If I used to be a buddy of hers and I might discuss to her, that’s precisely what I might inform her and be like, Caitlin, you shouldn’t have mentioned that it appears actually unhealthy.
So I believe the entire thing there’s a, there’s simply the joke itself fell flat. And the joke ended up being on the expense of someone else, since you and I each know if Kat Stickler, Jason Tardik’s new girlfriend instructed a joke on a podcast about. I used to be pondering of sending Caitlyn an image of me sucking Jason’s dick.
You assume Caitlyn would have dealt with that properly? That’s what I’m saying. Even when Kat mentioned, Oh, I used to be simply joking. I used to be simply taking part in, I used to be simply making a joke. As a result of she was his ex, and That’s what Caitlyn is mainly saying right here. I made a, I made a foul joke. She even mentioned that in that Fb publish that I learn you.
She’s admitting I made a foul joke. And a few persons are taking it to the extent of, Oh my God, I hate her. I can’t stand her. And it’s like, look, I, did I just like the joke? No. Did I believe it made her make her look unhealthy? Sure. Did I believe it made her look petty? Sure. Did I believe it make her look imply lady? Sure. Nevertheless it doesn’t imply I’m by no means going to go with Caitlin for one thing she does sooner or later.
And it doesn’t imply I might by no means discuss to her once more. I imply, that’s, that’s the place individuals get carried away in bachelor nation is their reactions to one thing like this. This, she didn’t do one thing unlawful. She didn’t break the legislation. She mentioned one thing dumb on a podcast. She shouldn’t have mentioned, doesn’t imply I’m going to cancel her.
I do know different individuals will, however I’m not, it’s simply for this specific incident. And sure, this has been the primary, this isn’t the primary and it received’t be the final. She admits I don’t have a filter and generally she places her foot in her mouth. And she or he did on this case on this occasion, she did it once more, however I believe that.
It was, and I believe the worst half was it wasn’t in response to something. She didn’t want to inform this story and sitting right here taking a look at it. It’s similar to, yeah, man, it’s simply, it doesn’t look good. It actually doesn’t. So sadly she mentioned it. She wrote that on her Fb publish. I don’t know if she’s going to handle it on her Instagram.
I don’t know if she’s going to do a video. I don’t know if she’s going to take an image of herself or do a video of herself or publish something about this, as a result of she has mentioned, like we talked about to start with, she has mentioned, I’m not speaking about my non-public life publicly. Nicely, to handle this story, she nearly has to speak about the truth that she’s relationship Zach, who’s Tasha’s ex boyfriend, and he or she nearly has to make use of names and he or she didn’t within the podcast.
I don’t count on her to do it now. So, I don’t know. I don’t even know if she’ll deal with this. However, if something, she needs to publicly say one thing, she ought to say, she ought to say what she wrote on her Fb. If she’s gonna deal with it publicly, simply no matter you wrote in your Fb group, that I learn to you, say it publicly.
Simply say that. I made a foul joke on the expense of someone who it was uncalled for, they didn’t deserve it. I imply, she’s now put it on the market into the general public. Her and I had been by no means mates. Caitlin and Tayshia had been by no means mates. I’ve heard that for, I’ve heard that for years, however I didn’t know the insides or, you recognize, the within to it or why, you recognize, I don’t know why they weren’t mates.
Simply because they hosted a present collectively didn’t imply they need to be mates. They had been coworkers, however as a result of they had been two girls for the primary time internet hosting the Bachelorette franchise, individuals simply thought they should be BFFs they usually weren’t. They by no means had been. So we will sit right here and debate lady code. Did she break lady code or something like that?
I believe the very last thing about that exact dialog on the podcast was Caitlin mentioned she was mainly contacting Taysha to offer her a heads up. Once more, it didn’t sound like a lot of a heads up as a result of she mentioned she wasn’t anticipating Taysha to react that means, which implies she went in with an agenda of, properly, I’m going to do no matter I’m going to do.
I’m simply giving Taysha a heads up. Nicely, then it looks like issues are type of backwards. Since you weren’t giving her a heads up, you had been telling her what you had been doing. You weren’t asking for her response. And she or he was nearly answering for the way Tayshia She thought Tayshia ought to have responded when she mentioned, I didn’t count on her to react that means.
Nicely, why not? Simply because Tayshia’s in a brand new relationship You already know, we, we don’t know when every little thing began with Zach, when every little thing began with Caitlin and Zach and, you recognize, the timelines of all that stuff. I’m not going to sit down right here and debate it as a result of I don’t know what the true reply is.
I’m simply taking a look at information right here. But when I’m Tayshia, who needed to sit on a sofa and have Caitlin maintain her hand throughout a Males Inform All episode and announce publicly that her and Zach had damaged up, And Caitlyn has been on podcasts after that, nearer to when that occurred, saying that she felt that Tayshia was very sturdy for that.
She felt terrible for Tayshia having to go on stage. And Tayshia sat on that stage and instructed everyone that she was damaged. She needed to break up with Zach they usually had been not collectively and he or she was hurting. And Caitlyn was the cohost of that and held her hand throughout all that. After which discover out no matter it was a 12 months later, two years later that Caitlyn was relationship Zach.
If you happen to’re Tayshia, it’s a must to assume in your head, Hey, once I was telling you all this about my relationship with Zach. Have been you listening? Did you’ve gotten eyes for him then? Did you’ve gotten it in your head? You already know, it’s simply, and I’m not saying, I’m not accusing anyone of something trigger I don’t know the timeline, however I’m simply saying if I’m Tayshia, I take a look at it as like, how do I do know that once I was going by way of this with Zach, Tayshia, you recognize, Caitlin was being trustworthy with me.
Perhaps she had a bit flutter in her eye for him again then. That’s all I’m saying. I’m not towards Caitlin relationship Zach. They had been each single individuals. They might date whoever they need. However you additionally need to know in case you date the ex fiance of someone within the franchise, yeah, it may not sit properly with them.
After which to go surfing and go on a podcast and inform that story and say, God, when she obtained, when she obtained, when she mentioned that to me and he or she mentioned that, you recognize, you’re a foul particular person. You had been what I all the time thought. I’m going to ship her an image of me sucking Zach’s dick. It’s like, okay, that wasn’t a terrific response.
Simply not good. Nevertheless, not selecting sides right here. I’m not crew Jason versus crew Caitlin. All I’m saying is unhealthy joke on a podcast. She by no means ought to have mentioned it. I’m not canceling her. She’s not going to lose her podcast recognition due to this simply means I believe she simply must be extra cautious. I perceive she loves being the lady that doesn’t have a filter, however she has to know generally that filter goes to attract a powerful response out of the viewers.
Ought to it contain loss of life threats? No. Ought to it contain calling her names? No. If you happen to don’t like how the way in which Caitlin conducts her enterprise and with among the issues she says, and among the issues which are off the cuff and no filter, then I might recommend simply don’t observe her, however don’t write her a message on her captions and don’t DM her.
That’s all. I’m not going to DM her. I’m not going to message her. I’m not going to ship her an electronic mail. I’m not going to jot down something on her web page. I’m nonetheless going to observe her. It’s simply no matter we transfer on. However Caitlin, simply She needs to say one thing publicly. I might assume she ought to simply say what she wrote on that Fb publish.
That’s all.
